Getting Older

Haven't been updating my blog for a while. I have been busy - busy with life.

Yes, I have to admit, life is treating me quite well. No doubt, things could have been better (like I could have won the million dollar lottery), I am still satisfied with my life so far.

I guess the goals are there to give us drive and motivation, but we still have to find happiness and not be too preoccupied with achieving our goals without regards to living our lives.

Yes, as reported in Gay To The Bone, I have been living quite an well integrated life with my straight friends. Somehow, I do think that my contacts with my gay friends are now quite inadequate.

But life is living the art of trying to strike a balance - so I guess I just might have to try to balance my gay social circle a little.

No, I honestly do not think that the gay lifestyle is just about sex. I have progressed (or should I say got older) where clubbing and loud music do not attract me anymore. I don't mind going, but the lure is definitely not there anymore.

Even those gay friends of mine that I have contact with these few years, are all the "homely type". Yeah, those that have house party celebrating birthdays and such. Entertainment is very different.

So is this the path that many gay people eventually walks ? That once you settle down, you lose touch with friends that you go clubbing with, and spend more time with the "settled-down" types (be they gay or straight) ?